Friday Sermon by: Alban Fejza, Online Congregation Director
Summary:
In this Friday sermon, Alban Fejza argues that as democracies reduce poverty, loneliness grows as a hidden problem in its place, and suggests ways, such as cutting processed sugar, to turn loneliness and poverty to our advantage in the cause of God.
Video Transcript:
Praise be to God. There is no other god except God. As I might have implied before, and God willing I will explain it more in the future, democracies, which are increasingly the only physically possible government systems in the end times, they never solve any problems without causing another problem somewhere else, but at the same time we are not against it, because they don’t make the problems bigger. They only redistribute them from places where they are more measurable to places where they more hidden. And one of the measurable problems is poverty. Democracies are gradually defeating poverty by causing other hidden problems and one of those hidden problems is loneliness. So, as poverty is increasingly reduced around the world in the future, loneliness increases. So, if you ever felt lonely, don’t feel bad about it. It was caused by democracies trying to avoid poverty. If you are a person who is suffering from loneliness today, had you lived in the past, you would have suffered from poverty. And if loneliness feels like too much to carry, and you would rather be poor than lonely, I can assure you that had you lived in the past, you would rather be lonely than poor. So, there is no escape from it in the short run, in the early part of your life, because it was caused to us by the system, but there is a way to mitigate it. There is a way to use it to make yourself a more resilient person. Let’s think of poverty and loneliness like two wounds from a knife in your chest. Our hearts are slightly deeper than about one inch from our skin. If you are stabbed with one two-inch knife in your chest, you will die. But, if you are stabbed with two one-inch knives, you will survive. So, the same with poverty and loneliness. If you are suffering from too much loneliness, accept some poverty willingly, and some of the loneliness will go away, and vice-versa. If you are suffering from too much poverty, accept some loneliness, and some of the poverty will go away. In practice, it can be realized in many ways, and you don’t have to completely understand it, but it will happen. Let me just give you some insight in some of the ways it happens. For example, let’s say that you live in poor country, and you are suffering from a lot of poverty but no loneliness, if you migrate, whatever poverty you avoided, it will turn into loneliness. And the opposite is also true. Let’s say that you are suffering from loneliness. If you want to reduce it, you simply have to start imitating a poor person, but an actual poor person of the past.
So, do what a poor person of the past would do. Do more physical work and less mental work. More nature, less comfort. Eat less calories, and recently I have come to realize that the healthiest way to reduce calories is to reduce processed sugars, because all the other types of calories also have other valuable things in them. Processed sugar is the only thing which only has calories. By the way, don’t go on spreading the word that I am saying that we should eat less processed sugar. I am not diet guru. I would never prohibit something which God has allowed. All I am saying is that if loneliness has become too much for you and you want to solve it, one of the most effective ways is to reduce the eating of processed sugar. And actually processed sugar is slightly addictive because it does not exist in nature, so it is almost impossible to just reduce it. To be more effective at it you can quit for example for several months, and then eat it for a few months, and then quit again for more months, and this stopes the addiction. If you just reduce it by a little bit, whenever you taste it, it drags you back to the old memories, and you lose the battle. By the way, if you are thin and lonely, and you decide to avoid processed sugar, make sure that you get all the needed calories through other ingredients, which might require that you learn how to cook wholesome meals.
One more thing, did you know that the word “sugar” which is pretty much the same word all over the world, sheker in Turkish, shuker in Arabic, it comes from the Quran, which means “wine”, and it is mentioned in verse 16:67, and they did not have artificial sugars in the past, and the only artificially sweet thing was wine. And this explains why the Quran seems like it does not completely prohibit intoxicants. It seems like it is only recommending us to not overindulge in it. And people get this impression because they forget that the Quran is talking about many things at once. The aspect which seems like a recommendation, but not a prohibition, that aspect is talking about processed sugar, and the aspect which seems like a prohibition, it is talking about alcohol and other intoxicants. So, if sugar is 10% as additive as alcohol, for example, then those verses apply 100% to alcohol, and only 10% to sugar. So, a diluted application of the verse, for the diluted effects. And again, I am not prohibiting sugar. I ate a chocolate today, but when loneliness becomes a problem for us, one of the very effective ways to eliminate it is to avoid processed sugar.
I am only talking about pure sugar, not natural sugar like in bread or rice and so on. So, basically, to avoid loneliness imitate poor people, and poor people of the past did not have chocolates, and drinks with added sugar, and so on. So, to avoid loneliness, imitate poor people, and to avoid poverty, imitate lonely people. Half loneliness and half poverty is less damaging than either one of them in full. This is only knowledge which I am divulging. I am not recommending any action. I never give any recommendation or order which is not in the Quran, but I am just revealing knowledge which you might chose to use or abuse. So, all this knowledge I told you, it will only make you more powerful, not better. So, my assumption is that you are good people, and giving you more tools for power will make you better. But if you are not good people, applying this same knowledge will make you worse. It’s like giving you a sword. You might use it for good or for bad. Knowledge is like a sword. This sermon was just knowledge, but I am not giving an order how to use it. If you are a good person, when you need it, you might want to use it, but if you are bad, you will misuse it. Similar to the angels of Haroot and Maroot, which are mentioned in verse 102 of sura 2, when they revealed secret knowledge, they warned the people that the same knowledge can be used for bad or for good, and it was up to the people to decide to use it for good. So realizing how to manipulate loneliness and poverty is just knowledge. I am not telling you what to do. I am only giving you an additional tool. So, here is how I am trying to use this knowledge, for example, and it is completely up to you use it. It’s just knowledge. So, I identified the general situations in life when we are lonelier. For example, if we are young and living away from our parents, or as an adult but not married, or maybe living in a foreign country, or maybe we are old and the children have moved out of the house, and these are situations where you are more likely to be lonely. So, one of my mitigation strategies for these situations is that I reduce processed sugar, let’s say about 70%. So, I would not eat it for about 7 months, let’s say and then eat it for about 3 months. And, if I am in another situation, let’s say where I might be married, or with children, or with lots of friends, then I would probably only reduce sugar by 10% or not at all. And by the way, avoiding processed sugar helps prevent diabetes, depression, anxiety, and addictions, like computer game addictions among children, or other addictions among grown-ups. I only focused on sugar, because I wanted to keep the sermon short, but there are a hundred of other ways to manipulate loneliness and poverty to our advantage, and once we turn it into an advantage, we can use it in the cause of God. Anyway, this is just knowledge. If you want, you completely forget that I said this. Let’s just worship God.